What I learned from TRMD?

Recently the three months running show on GMA Network, The Rich Man's Daughter has just ended. Even the show has commence to its ending, its fandom has astoundingly emerged and came strong on the internet.

It's a story of a rich heiress Jade who came from a prominent rich family unexpectedly fell in love with the same gender, Althea. 

From that point, I will leave it to you to research and track the rest of the story. Because the main reason why I am writing this are to dissect the deep issues on this kind of topics.

Its not a secret and its known that certain people aren't open to acknowledge this kind of beautiful human beings (LGBT) exist. Although, we could see them everywhere, narrow minded species persist to disregard the fact that love knows no gender.

They condemn this type of people as if they're contagious. While some think that they're easily be cured like sickness. Prominent Celebrities, Artist, speakers and all in different facet of industries have proven that LGBT have contiously create waves to share progress with humanity.

As much as possible, I dont want to call them LGBT because they're similar to us seeking to be loved.

@DalaiLama: We all want to be happy and avoid suffering, and we all have a right to be happy. That’s why I say we are all the same.

 Its not necessary to label them and keep them in a box like a thing ready to be sold out in the store. It just so happen that they found love with similar gender. I abundantly say that I respect & love all kinds of people and it doesn't mean that when you watch certain show's like The Rich Man's Daughter or My Husband's Lover its understood to say your gender are similarly bent. Its one way of appreciating and acknowledging that the kind of love Jade & Althea has are something that people could cherish. That it happens, that it exist, that its not something to be ignored. 

I have stopped explaining why I watch what I watch. Because I dont give importance to what outlook other people have for me but the outlook I only allow to give myself. And that is what I know is the most significant advise I could share from myself to you. Never be ashame of how you would like your actions to be nor the way you would want to express yourself. I recommend that you continously read informative books that will keep your confidence in a paramount stature. Keep that love burning.

And in the future, when I have my own children. I will nurture them that love can be like Althea & Jade, it could also be like me & their dad. I will support them and keep them educated that all kinds of affection exist and that if one day it happens that they found real one from a similar gender as they are, I will be happy to look at them seeing their happiness being mirrored back to the person they have chosen to loved.

I heart you all.

Life on Marriage

April 10, 2015 1140hrs.lt.

I have a colleague in the office, she just recently joined our team last January 2015.

She was actually excited on the new things and was amazed by how much salary she gets compared to her situation back to her home country where her struggle was times three. She then shared that her happiness has regained as she can provide all her wants now and even managed to support her family without the stress of budgeting unlike her income.

Her job indeed pays more than she can think of however as we get to our mid conversation she was in agony on how to persuade his husband as she wants to bring her spouse here so he could realize that there is more life waiting for him than on that small Island they’re currently exist in and that the opportunity was unlimited if one is hardworking.

Unfortunately, the Husband was able to see the definition of life back home. He is currently the Chief Fire Man personnel and all their Barangay look up to him with kind & respect. He explained to her OFW wife that our earnings are sufficient enough to meet the daily needs with consideration to their two sons who’s in elementary. He continued, it would be much happier if she will come home and be with them to make a simple life.

The OFW wife was upset hearing it from her husband which she previously recalls that it was completely different from the thought he said before which she mentioned that he have a bigger dreams than staying in their island and that he doesn't want to settle for less.

I was of course was just listening to her sentiments, I could see that she was excited with the new environment she saw was best suited for her needs. Here, Money is Power. You could buy the things that you want if you have this kind of Power. You can pamper yourself and get much more options.

Until she get over and have satisfied enough from the material things this land has to offer. I could for sure see that she will get to what her husband has seen in the Island that made him stay.

In life we need to ask ourselves what is the most important thing to us. We should figure out if the action that we are doing is similar to our beliefs. Struggle/Stress arise when the thought that we have is different to what we do.

In Marriage, both people who have come in front of god had promised the internal commitment of Love for each other through whatever problem it may arise as they go through with life. We need to remind ourselves as time crouch in manner that we don’t expect until it’s too late.

RDC X