Survey from Candidate No. 3

I had a recent interview, all of the candidates are Pinay which I find amazing (they love pinoy talaga). Syempre being the natural Ms. Congeniality, I'm always the who start the conversation. I make brief convo to those who are still waiting for their spotlight to be grilled. 

It goes like this:

Me: Kanina ka pa?

Me: San ka dito nag-iistay? (UAE)

Me: San ka ba sa Pinas?

Then, the ice glacier break a little bit and the conversation are starting to evolve. 

After the interview, its natural for them to ask how it goes and share what they have experienced. The agony goes on and I always pacify their feelings at the end of it.

Afterwards, we get into the same ride as we go home. The easiest trasportation of course is the metro station. And your rivalry from the interview became your instant friends that only last as you parted away off the metro. 

I always make a setup of other people's situation on myself wherein I utilized it to survey the mindset of people and their views. I then ask if they'll engage into a relationship wherein the partner was already entangled back to its home country. The replies goes to this, which I'm glad to hear:

Candidate No. 3: Hay ano kaba sinasayang mo lang ang buhay mo dyan..

Candidate No. 3: Nangyari na sakin yan, 6 years din yun ngayon ito ako, nagsisisi..

Candidate No. 3: Hanap ka nalang ng iba, bata ka pa naman. 

Candidate No. 3: Hindi ka ba nakokosensya sa pamilya ninya, although kasalanan din nung lalaki

Candidate No. 3: Kung kapatid kita, tutuktukan kita talaga

Candidate No. 3: Alam ko talaga na ang lugar na to, wala ka kakilala at di maiiwasan na magkagusto ka. Kaya lang wag sa ganun. Sayang ka

Candidate No. 3: Ay, anung number mo hanap nalang kita ng okay. Dali..

This girl wouldn't stop even I told her that I get her point. She's way too concerned and goes to more example of herself. 

The above response gives you Candidate no. 3's personal experience and greatly put significance that she's against extra marital affairs. 

I have done this experiment because I get to see people on this type of arrangement. I don't judge them on the path that they have chosen but all I want to share is a little bit of enlightenment.